4 Ideas for Men Looking to Meet Women Online (or IRL)

If you have a smartphone and have a Facebook, and are looking for (quick) love, the Tinder app (on iOS or Android) is the place you want to be.

However, this application is specifically channeled toward a certain – “let’s get laid tonight!” mentality. If you’re looking for true love, this might not be the best play.

As a reminder for newcomers, Tinder is an application of geolocated encounters, on which you are offered profiles with the photo of the girl, her first name and age, and possibly description. You can “approve” or “deny” her at first glance. So it’s a crazy ton of profiles that you can explore in a fraction of a second.

Once you’re “matched” with the girl, it’s good but we must message to her. At this point, many men are wondering how to approach Tinder, which is why I wrote this article for you.

Without further wait, here are the 4 best catch phrases to seduce Tinder successfully 🙂

1.) Call her by her first name message

One approach that girls are not used to is that of the first name. Why do you think that is?

Nothing could be simpler, you have her first name followed by an exclamation point: “Jamie!”

This extremely simple approach and statistically has a very good response rate, as it stands out of the ordinary for women who get the same basic messages from men.

After that, you just have to increase, either by continuing on the indirect path “What are you crazy about in life? “Or by being direct – “Tinder says you’re only 2 miles away from me … What are you doing tonight?”

On Tinder, test everything to see what works, failure does not matter!

2.) Mention a  detail on her photo?

Another approach is to point out a detail on one of the girl’s pics.

Maybe she has a crazy shoes, or rad lipstick, or a cute hat that looks a bit quirky and hot at the same time. The more obtuse you can be the better. Remember it’s all about standing out in a sea of basic messages.

It can also be a pet, indeed you will see a lot of girls taking pictures with their cat or their dog.

At that point you just have to make your creativity work out of the moment: “He looks cool your cat, what’s the rascal’s name?”

3.) Common interests

Tinder also displays the pages you have liked in common on Facebook. So, if the page comes out of the ordinary (a hobbie, a cause that is close to your heart, an artist, an original film …), take advantage to bounce directly on it. This can quickly create a commonality and will allow you to quickly get her phone number.

“Hey X (always put the first name), I saw that you liked Star Wars (geeky!) so I felt obliged to send you a message! ”

A catch of this type allows the girl to bounce back on this precise subject to feed the conversation. As for you, it allows you to expand on something else of the same theme: “This film makes me think of X”

Be quick, there are a lot of people on Tinder and a lot of men who are there to “pounce”, so do not waste your time. Boring discussions of weather or “what’s up?” are quick fails.

4.) The most direct: “Yo, what are you doing tonight? “

Some women don’t want to waste their time with guy they will never see again for the most part. For this, I advise to adopt a very direct method: “Yo X, what are you doing tonight? (Or another derivative of this). Depending on his answer you suggest “We’re headed to a bar The Library at 9pm, last one there buys drinks!”

Get her number before or after the proposal and confirm over SMS.

Here are my best 4 catch phrases to test on Tinder.

10 Things to Know Before You Go On Your First Tinder Date

Getting a date is exciting but at the same time, you might be worrying a million things about the date. What is the person like? What to do on the date? How should I present myself? And the questions go on and on. But the good news is if the date is not good, it’s just a one-time thing, you don’t have to be with the person forever.

There are many different types of people in the world, and it is not surprising that these types of people are on the Internet. So, when you are looking for friends or a date, it’s like an experiment. You have to actually go on a date and be sure if the person is the one you are looking for. There are many dating apps, and Tinder is one of the famous ones.

Let’s reveal the top 10 must know tips for you to get a date on Tinder.

1.) The Awkward First Date

The first date is always awkward even if you have known the date for some time. And the situation is getting weirder when you are going on a blind date with someone you know online and have limited information about the person. Be prepared for the awkward moment, try to start some topics about hobbies, favorite books, and movies to break the ice. If your sense of humor has been proven by almost everyone around you, telling some jokes is a good idea, too.

2.) Don’t Rush It

Unless there’s no tomorrow, or you should take your time. Never question yourselves or your date on ‘where are we standing’, ‘what does second date means’, ‘do you really want to be with me or not’. Things happen for a reason. Tinder has put you and your date together, now go with the flow and enjoy it. But don’t move too slow or the date will be slipping away.

3.) You Are Your Own Entertainment

Some dates are good on the phone and not so good in real life, that happens. Therefore, if your date is not as good as you expected, you must entertain yourself by telling jokes and making conversations. Sometimes, saying some random things will help in easing the tense and warm each other up.

4.) Unintended Comments

When we are nervous, we might be acting differently. And usually, when you are on a date, you will be nervous as well and make some weird comments. If your date keeps making quick comments that make you feel uncomfortable, just talk to your date, it is probably just the nerves.

5.) Leave The Window Opens

Alright, you are not sure if you would like to go on a second date with the person at the end of the first date. Just say yes because when you’re not sure, it is always a 50/50 chance and you should explore further. Maybe you will be discovering something interesting about the person which you will like a lot.

6.) Timing Is Key

When it comes to dating, timing is everything. And since there are so many different types of people in the world, you should be ready to date some people you click with and some people you feel uncomfortable with. Just pay close attention to it. Meeting someone at a different time can make a huge difference.

7.) Don’t Expect Too Much

When you are not expecting, you would be happy to get something. If you put your hopes too high, you will be hurt when the result is not what you desired. Set your expectations, but don’t make it too high or else you will get disappointed.

8.) The Perfect Stranger

If you have problems to get someone to click with, many people out there are facing this problem as well. Perhaps someone you are looking for is waiting for you to ring the bell. Be confident, be brave, it’s just a date. And if you are really scared of meeting strangers, just tell some of your close friends where are you going, who are you seeing and some other details.

With the help of all the tips above, it is time for you to go on a get a date for yourself. Don’t be shy because the endless opportunities are waiting for you.

9.) Politely Reject The Next Meeting

If the dates are like an experiment, you should know some will be successful and some will fail. If the date ended up badly for any reasons, you should be leaving the date in a positive manner and reject the idea of meeting again politely.

10.) The First Impression Doesn’t Always Count

Today you make a mistake and your boss didn’t like it, I am sure you won’t be purposely making the same mistake again because it jeopardizes your career. Same thing goes to dating, if your date made some mistakes on the first date but you really like the person, don’t judge too soon, everyone deserves a second chance.

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